Dear Joe,

I am a 25-year old married woman with 1 wonderful baby boy. I was contented with my life, with my family and with my work. I am an Executive Assistant to a multinational company. Everyday, I used to hurry going home because I miss my husband and my baby. Until he came…..

He is an engineer in our office. He is nice, handsome, intelligent, talented, and sweet. He is a perfect guy a woman would ever dream of. He is also married, and his wife is also our officemate.

Our relationship started a few months after his wife was deployed overseas for training. One night, we were chatting when he revealed that he likes me for a long time, since I was new in the company. I admitted also that he has caught my attention during the time that I was not married yet.

We became closer to each other since then. After office, he drives me near my place. We make sure that someone we know does not see us. Petting and necking until we came to the point of doing sex. We both know we’re doing wrong. I feel guilty for betraying my family, but more of happiness of being with him. We are both happy and we don’t feel any regrets of spending time together.

One week to go and his wife is coming back. He said that we will still continue our relationship but we have to lie low. At first, I agree. But as the days go by, I realized that this is not going to work out. And this is a big mess if we’ve found out. Then I told him that we have to end this now while we still can, and he agreed. We both decided not to talk to each other anymore. It’s a very hard decision for both of us.

We lasted this relationship for only a month. Tomorrow, his wife will arrive. I really miss him but I know I have to keep myself away from him or else we would be back in each other’s arms. I know that this is the right thing to do, but its really hard.

Joe, i already know what to do but its really killing me. Please help me feel ok.... Somehow, i know your words will help me.... Thank you very much!

Warmest Regards,

J.Forbidden